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Rev. Evelyn Bourne (Ambilike)'s avatar

From one neurodivergent curmudgeon to another, I see you. There is a part of me that would rather be right, but thank goodness I don't let her win and lean into kindness instead.

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Christie Sausa, MS's avatar

Yes! It's a constant process to moderate my 'know it all' instincts. I remind myself that I don't need to say everything I think all the time. I'm glad I'm not the only 'neurodivergent curmudgeon' here on Substack. Thank you for your comment!

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Maria Gamb-Lipari's avatar

This is, hands down, my favorite bit of wisdom. I use it all the time - with my husband, colleagues, accountability partners etc "would you rather be right or be happy" - my variation on the original. Thanks for the reminder and reinforcement of this important life skill.

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Christie Sausa, MS's avatar

Thank you, I’m glad it helped! 😊

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JFT Beach 🇬🇧 🏊 🧘‍♂️'s avatar

This is a nice piece and I'll share link to it in my Sunday round up letter

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